I could not help but wonder..this was the same girl that months ago was desperate to meet a nice guy. Now she had..but already she was ready to change him. “Wardobe and hair I can change,†she said. “But the weight…now that’s an issue.†I cannot say I’m comfortable wit my body. Sure, there are things that I would love to change. I could definitely lose a few kilos…get rid of my tummy and love handles but I pride myself on the motto that a man must love me as I am….take it or leave it. I am considering joining the gym though…it is after all gay church. I exercise but only as way to release stress… But back to Yasmine and her dilemma. If she tells the guy to loose weight or else..she may be the one who is dumped not the big mac. But if he does not loose weight..it may be a dealbraker for her. I recommended that she ask him to jog on the weekend or join her for a bushwalk. This way it won’t be about him but more about them. She can get him to exercise while not making a big deal about his weight. So you finally find the right guy..but you want to change this..and you want to change that…or maybe he wants to change this…and change that of you..I could not help but wonder if there are any guys out there who love you “just the way you are.â€